SAMUEL GASS AND LENA KESSEL Raising an American Family with Old World Values
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Max Gass was born on January 4, 1909, in the three-decker home of his parents on Orange Street in Chelsea. On the birth certificate his name is listed as Max Hyman Gass—not Max Harry, the name he used later in life. His birth was registered more than a year late, on March 16, 1910. At that time, his parents’ residence was listed as 3 Spiers Place.
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Max Gass, early childhood |
For more information about Max’s childhood, read Max’s Road.
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Samuel Gass with his son Max, circa 1910 |
Ida Marilyn Gass, the oldest of Samuel and Lena’s daughters, was born on March 8, 1912. She is remembered for her sharp mind and strong personality. On June 16, 1935, Ida married Jonas Ullian, a pharmacist, and they had two daughters Shiela and Judy. [1]
According to Ida’s daughter Judy:
“My mother went to Emerson College where she majored in drama and theater arts, and loved putting on plays. Then she worked at the Settlement House in Roxbury, which was still a Jewish section at that time. I’m not sure how she met my father—I assume they were fixed up—but it was a true romance. They fell in love. After they married, they lived for a short time with her parents in Chelsea. When my sister, Shiela, was born they left County Road. My father was a pharmacist with one drugstore in Jamaica Plain, and one in Boston on the Fenway.
Ida Gass Ullian |
“A lot of stuff was hidden from my sister and me. I guess I really didn’t understand my mother until the last five or six years, as much as I can ever understand her. I felt that she was very rigid with me. She was kind of distant and found it hard to show her feelings and affection. I think a lot of the things that upset me related to her background. She really didn’t know how to give.
“I don’t know whether or not my mother ever felt that she lived up to her father’s expectations. My mother probably should have been in business. She was a very bright woman, knew the stock market, and knew law. She was also well versed in Hebrew. She was torn between having to be an Orthodox Jewish woman and all that entailed, and what she was suited to be intellectually and emotionally. I think it was tough for her.
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Ida’s wedding. Back left to right: Patty Gass, Jonas Ullian, Sam and Max Gass, Minnie Gass; front: Samuel and Rachel Kessel, Ida Gass Ullian, Lena and Anna Gass |
“Family was absolutely the most important thing in my mother’s life. Every Sunday was go-to-Chelsea day, and we would visit my grandparents—the Gass grandparents first, and then Bubbe and Zadie Ullian, who lived on Carmel Street. We did that for as long as I can remember while everybody was still alive. We spent every holiday at County Road. After my grandmother died, my mother was running to Chelsea to take care of the house and do the cooking for my grandfather. Shiela would stay over with her.
Ida died in 1988 at the age of 76.
Anna Gass Shapiro
Samuel and Lena’s second daughter, Anna, was born on August 15, 1915, and named for her paternal grandmother, Chana Goos. She graduated from Simmons College, and married Abraham Shapiro in 1947 or 1948. They lived in Bangor, Maine, where Abraham owned a drugstore. Anna died on January 14, 1958, at the age of forty-three.
Anna Gass and Abe Shapiro |
Anna Gass Shapiro |
The Gass sisters at Anna’s wedding. Left to right: Minnie, Patty, Anna, and Ida |
The third of the four Gass sisters, Minnie, was born on February 20, 1917. She attended the University of New Hampshire and Emerson College. In 1946, Minnie exchanged wedding vows with Joseph Alter, an attorney. They had two sons: Leonard and Roger. Minnie and Leonard separated when their younger son was in college and divorced. Minnie died of cancer on November 8, 1985”
[1] Shiela Ullian was born on August 22, 1937. She attended Simmons College, majoring in psychology. In 1958, she married attorney Sam Fish, and they had two daughters, Mona Cheryl Fish Spitz and Amy Lynne Fish. Shiela died on March 25, at the age of 40